Discussion Forum: Thread 342194

 Author: Munotbrick View Messages Posted By Munotbrick
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 06:39
 Subject: Threats
 Viewed: 325 times
 Topic: Problem Order
 Report:
Cancel Message
Cancel
Reply to Message
Reply
BrickLink
ID Card

Munotbrick (401)

Location:  Switzerland, Schaffhausen
Member Since Contact Type Status
Apr 26, 2022 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - OK
Store: Munotbrick
Hello

I ordered a couple minifigs from a german seller.
Once arrived, i told him that he send the wrong minifig. The minifig was already
in my collection, so i had no use for it.

I told him he can either send me the porto (what is high) and i send it back
and he sends me the correct minifig (what would be about 10 Euro + labor) or
he can send me just 10 euro and be done with the topic.

He refused. He wanted only to refund the difference between the cost of the minifig
he send me and the one i actually ordered. I explained him, that i would not
have ordered this minifig and i have no use for it, so either i send it back
on his cost and he sends me the right one or he has to refund.

It's just about 3 Euros actually. But i really don't like people that
don't full refund for their mistakes. Mistakes can happen!

As an answer, he told me again that he will just refund me the difference between
the delivered minifig and the minifig i ordered.

In the same message, he started to talk about that he checked out my website
and stuff, and starts threatening me with "abmahnungen". Thats some german
term were they report you for anything wrongdoing (like not having an impressum,
not beeing registered at the right place) and that this will cost me up to 2500
euro.

In the end, i'm not really threatend. I checked my legal obligations and
they are all fine (he probably just missed the links to impressum and data-security
in the footer).

Nevertheless - how to deal with such a seller on bricklink? He has many many
positive feedbacks - even though i start to suspect he makes sure this way that
he does not have any negative ones...
 Author: brac.brick View Messages Posted By brac.brick
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 07:42
 Subject: Re: Threats
 Viewed: 112 times
 Topic: Problem Order
 Report:
Cancel Message
Cancel
Reply to Message
Reply
BrickLink
ID Card

brac.brick (1169)

Location:  USA, California
Member Since Contact Type Status
May 19, 2015 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - OK
Store: Brick & Brac
In Problem Order, Munotbrick writes:
  Hello

I ordered a couple minifigs from a german seller.
Once arrived, i told him that he send the wrong minifig. The minifig was already
in my collection, so i had no use for it.



Nevertheless - how to deal with such a seller on bricklink? He has many many
positive feedbacks - even though i start to suspect he makes sure this way that
he does not have any negative ones...

If you didn't receive what you ordered, if you paid by Paypal, you can open
a dispute because you didn't receive what was ordered nor did you get a refund.
Go to your Paypal account and click on Help, there is information on how to open
a case.
 Author: PlanetEarthToys View Messages Posted By PlanetEarthToys
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 09:26
 Subject: (Cancelled)
 Viewed: 123 times
 Topic: Problem Order
Cancel Message
Cancel
BrickLink
ID Card

PlanetEarthToys (146)

Location:  USA, Arkansas
Member Since Contact Type Status
Aug 24, 2021 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - Revoked
Store Closed Store: Planet Earth Toys
(Cancelled)
 Author: SylvainLS View Messages Posted By SylvainLS
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 09:38
 Subject: Re: Threats
 Viewed: 106 times
 Topic: Problem Order
 Report:
Cancel Message
Cancel
Reply to Message
Reply
BrickLink
ID Card

SylvainLS (52)

Location:  France, Nouvelle-Aquitaine
Member Since Contact Type Status
Apr 25, 2014 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - OK
Store Closed Store: BuyerOnly
BrickLink Discussions Moderator (?)
In Problem Order, PlanetEarthToys writes:
  […]
seller is not required to pay for the return postage. […]

Depends.
EU consumer laws say they are in many cases.

Actually, EU consumer law say: if you receive something that you didn’t order,
and the seller doesn’t want it back (doesn’t pay for the return), you can keep
it without paying it.

This is not a “I don’t want it anymore” return, it’s a “I didn’t order that”
return.
 Author: Stuart9 View Messages Posted By Stuart9
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 09:41
 Subject: Re: Threats
 Viewed: 122 times
 Topic: Problem Order
 Report:
Cancel Message
Cancel
Reply to Message
Reply
BrickLink
ID Card

Stuart9 (1457)

Location:  United Kingdom, England
Member Since Contact Type Status
Jul 22, 2012 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - Revoked
Store Closed Store: Top Slot
My problem with a buyer having to pay return shipping is that the seller apparently
sent the wrong figure.

If the buyer has to pay return shipping they are losing out through no fault
of their own, return, yes but seller who made the mistake pays return shipping.

Buyer ordering wrong item and wants to return then buyer pays return shipping.

It would allow any unscrupulous seller to send an incorrect item deliberately
and put the buyer in a position that makes them reluctantly accept it as it’s
not financially viable to return the item.




In Problem Order, PlanetEarthToys writes:
  In Problem Order, Munotbrick writes:
  Hello

I ordered a couple minifigs from a german seller.
Once arrived, i told him that he send the wrong minifig. The minifig was already
in my collection, so i had no use for it.

I told him he can either send me the porto (what is high) and i send it back
and he sends me the correct minifig (what would be about 10 Euro + labor) or
he can send me just 10 euro and be done with the topic.

He refused. He wanted only to refund the difference between the cost of the minifig
he send me and the one i actually ordered. I explained him, that i would not
have ordered this minifig and i have no use for it, so either i send it back
on his cost and he sends me the right one or he has to refund.

It's just about 3 Euros actually. But i really don't like people that
don't full refund for their mistakes. Mistakes can happen!

As an answer, he told me again that he will just refund me the difference between
the delivered minifig and the minifig i ordered.

In the same message, he started to talk about that he checked out my website
and stuff, and starts threatening me with "abmahnungen". Thats some german
term were they report you for anything wrongdoing (like not having an impressum,
not beeing registered at the right place) and that this will cost me up to 2500
euro.

In the end, i'm not really threatend. I checked my legal obligations and
they are all fine (he probably just missed the links to impressum and data-security
in the footer).

Nevertheless - how to deal with such a seller on bricklink? He has many many
positive feedbacks - even though i start to suspect he makes sure this way that
he does not have any negative ones...

opened a can of worms it seems..

if you are not happy with what you received, you should return it for a refund.
seller is not required to pay for the return postage.

your ultimatum presented to the seller is " so either i send it back
  on his cost and he sends me the right one or he has to refund. "


you send it back at your cost for a refund.
paypal might require you to prove he sent you the wrong minifig, but before any
paypal refund can be processed, you are required to return the merchandise you
received.

it's not some windfall for you where you get a free minifigure ( or the
cost of) out of the deal, like your ultimatum describes.
 Author: Munotbrick View Messages Posted By Munotbrick
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 09:54
 Subject: Re: Threats
 Viewed: 118 times
 Topic: Problem Order
 Report:
Cancel Message
Cancel
Reply to Message
Reply
BrickLink
ID Card

Munotbrick (401)

Location:  Switzerland, Schaffhausen
Member Since Contact Type Status
Apr 26, 2022 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - OK
Store: Munotbrick
In Problem Order, PlanetEarthToys writes:
  In Problem Order, Munotbrick writes:
  Hello

I ordered a couple minifigs from a german seller.
Once arrived, i told him that he send the wrong minifig. The minifig was already
in my collection, so i had no use for it.

I told him he can either send me the porto (what is high) and i send it back
and he sends me the correct minifig (what would be about 10 Euro + labor) or
he can send me just 10 euro and be done with the topic.

He refused. He wanted only to refund the difference between the cost of the minifig
he send me and the one i actually ordered. I explained him, that i would not
have ordered this minifig and i have no use for it, so either i send it back
on his cost and he sends me the right one or he has to refund.

It's just about 3 Euros actually. But i really don't like people that
don't full refund for their mistakes. Mistakes can happen!

As an answer, he told me again that he will just refund me the difference between
the delivered minifig and the minifig i ordered.

In the same message, he started to talk about that he checked out my website
and stuff, and starts threatening me with "abmahnungen". Thats some german
term were they report you for anything wrongdoing (like not having an impressum,
not beeing registered at the right place) and that this will cost me up to 2500
euro.

In the end, i'm not really threatend. I checked my legal obligations and
they are all fine (he probably just missed the links to impressum and data-security
in the footer).

Nevertheless - how to deal with such a seller on bricklink? He has many many
positive feedbacks - even though i start to suspect he makes sure this way that
he does not have any negative ones...

opened a can of worms it seems..

if you are not happy with what you received, you should return it for a refund.
seller is not required to pay for the return postage.

your ultimatum presented to the seller is " so either i send it back
  on his cost and he sends me the right one or he has to refund. "


you send it back at your cost for a refund.
paypal might require you to prove he sent you the wrong minifig, but before any
paypal refund can be processed, you are required to return the merchandise you
received.

it's not some windfall for you where you get a free minifigure ( or the
cost of) out of the deal, like your ultimatum describes.

Why would i need to pay shipping cost from switzerland to germany (4,10 Euro)
for a mistake of the seller that sends me the wrong product instead of the one
i ordered? That would mean i have to pay additionally 4,10 Euro out of my pocket
for a fault of the seller. That seems weird.
 Author: PlanetEarthToys View Messages Posted By PlanetEarthToys
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 12:33
 Subject: (Cancelled)
 Viewed: 120 times
 Topic: Problem Order
Cancel Message
Cancel
BrickLink
ID Card

PlanetEarthToys (146)

Location:  USA, Arkansas
Member Since Contact Type Status
Aug 24, 2021 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - Revoked
Store Closed Store: Planet Earth Toys
(Cancelled)
 Author: jennnifer View Messages Posted By jennnifer
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 12:46
 Subject: Re: Threats
 Viewed: 97 times
 Topic: Problem Order
 Report:
Cancel Message
Cancel
Reply to Message
Reply
BrickLink
ID Card

jennnifer (3697)

Location:  USA, Illinois
Member Since Contact Type Status
Sep 8, 2009 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - OK
Store: Old Grey Bricks
In Problem Order, PlanetEarthToys writes:
  
welcome to Civilized Society

what you describe sounds like extortion. you started off the conversation with
the seller by issuing him an ultimatum, thus threatening him by saying "you
either do this or i keep what i received & you have to refund".
his response seems fitting for how you describe your initial interaction with
him. try a different route.

check his return policy , but if paypal was the payment processor, 99% sure you
will have to pay to return the merchadise for a refund. check their policy as
well

You are way off base here. Extortion? Threats? Really?

If a seller sends you the wrong item and wants it returned, they absolutely pay
for the return shipping.

~Jen
 Author: PlanetEarthToys View Messages Posted By PlanetEarthToys
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 14:08
 Subject: (Cancelled)
 Viewed: 97 times
 Topic: Problem Order
Cancel Message
Cancel
BrickLink
ID Card

PlanetEarthToys (146)

Location:  USA, Arkansas
Member Since Contact Type Status
Aug 24, 2021 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - Revoked
Store Closed Store: Planet Earth Toys
(Cancelled)
 Author: TallyToyBricks View Messages Posted By TallyToyBricks
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 14:17
 Subject: Re: Threats
 Viewed: 92 times
 Topic: Problem Order
 Report:
Cancel Message
Cancel
Reply to Message
Reply
BrickLink
ID Card

TallyToyBricks (4128)

Location:  USA, Florida
Member Since Contact Type Status
Feb 16, 2011 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - OK
Store: Tally Toy
  it's a simple return to sender in the same package using same tracking #
or buyer pays to return what was received.
ask paypal.


This is simply FALSE.
If the seller sends the wrong item, PayPal will require the seller to cover the
cost of return shipping.

As others have pointed out, the consumer protection rules in Europe are pro-consumer.

There is not threat or extortion.
 Author: PlanetEarthToys View Messages Posted By PlanetEarthToys
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 14:29
 Subject: (Cancelled)
 Viewed: 83 times
 Topic: Problem Order
Cancel Message
Cancel
BrickLink
ID Card

PlanetEarthToys (146)

Location:  USA, Arkansas
Member Since Contact Type Status
Aug 24, 2021 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - Revoked
Store Closed Store: Planet Earth Toys
(Cancelled)
 Author: SylvainLS View Messages Posted By SylvainLS
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 14:21
 Subject: Re: Threats
 Viewed: 84 times
 Topic: Problem Order
 Report:
Cancel Message
Cancel
Reply to Message
Reply
BrickLink
ID Card

SylvainLS (52)

Location:  France, Nouvelle-Aquitaine
Member Since Contact Type Status
Apr 25, 2014 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - OK
Store Closed Store: BuyerOnly
BrickLink Discussions Moderator (?)
In Problem Order, PlanetEarthToys writes:
  […]
presenting someone with an ultimatum is extotion. regardless of where it happens
or who is issuing the ultimatum.

simple example of Extortion - "do this or else this other thing happens"

With that definition, sellers are “extorting” money from their buyers….
 Author: PlanetEarthToys View Messages Posted By PlanetEarthToys
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 14:32
 Subject: (Cancelled)
 Viewed: 66 times
 Topic: Problem Order
Cancel Message
Cancel
BrickLink
ID Card

PlanetEarthToys (146)

Location:  USA, Arkansas
Member Since Contact Type Status
Aug 24, 2021 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - Revoked
Store Closed Store: Planet Earth Toys
(Cancelled)
 Author: tonnic View Messages Posted By tonnic
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 18:17
 Subject: Re: Threats
 Viewed: 78 times
 Topic: Problem Order
 Report:
Cancel Message
Cancel
Reply to Message
Reply
BrickLink
ID Card

tonnic (4519)

Location:  Netherlands, Noord-Holland
Member Since Contact Type Status
Sep 30, 2004 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - OK
Store Closed Store: Tons_of_Bricks
In Problem Order, PlanetEarthToys writes:
  In Problem Order, SylvainLS writes:
  In Problem Order, PlanetEarthToys writes:
  […]
presenting someone with an ultimatum is extotion. regardless of where it happens
or who is issuing the ultimatum.

simple example of Extortion - "do this or else this other thing happens"

With that definition, sellers are “extorting” money from their buyers….

sellers have zero control over my buyers making ppurchases & paying for items.
what are you talking about...?

feel free to explain how a self-checkout, buyer pays with paypal situation where
the seller is forcing the buyer to pay anything.

You cannot read between the lines of Sylvain? It is called humor, maybe not funny
for all of us but in any case it is not serious (although you can never be too
sure with both Sylvains, must me something in their names or maybe just because
they are French).
However did you get positive feedback only?
After reading your comments, and yes we do live in a democracy and you are free
to say what you want, I would never buy from you, maybe your feedbacks are positive
only due to…(no, I am not writing it).
 Author: PlanetEarthToys View Messages Posted By PlanetEarthToys
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 18:20
 Subject: (Cancelled)
 Viewed: 71 times
 Topic: Problem Order
Cancel Message
Cancel
BrickLink
ID Card

PlanetEarthToys (146)

Location:  USA, Arkansas
Member Since Contact Type Status
Aug 24, 2021 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - Revoked
Store Closed Store: Planet Earth Toys
(Cancelled)
 Author: tonnic View Messages Posted By tonnic
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 18:23
 Subject: Re: Threats
 Viewed: 80 times
 Topic: Problem Order
 Report:
Cancel Message
Cancel
Reply to Message
Reply
BrickLink
ID Card

tonnic (4519)

Location:  Netherlands, Noord-Holland
Member Since Contact Type Status
Sep 30, 2004 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - OK
Store Closed Store: Tons_of_Bricks
In Problem Order, PlanetEarthToys writes:
  In Problem Order, tonnic writes:
  In Problem Order, PlanetEarthToys writes:
  In Problem Order, SylvainLS writes:
  In Problem Order, PlanetEarthToys writes:
  […]
presenting someone with an ultimatum is extotion. regardless of where it happens
or who is issuing the ultimatum.

simple example of Extortion - "do this or else this other thing happens"

With that definition, sellers are “extorting” money from their buyers….

sellers have zero control over my buyers making ppurchases & paying for items.
what are you talking about...?

feel free to explain how a self-checkout, buyer pays with paypal situation where
the seller is forcing the buyer to pay anything.

You cannot read between the lines of Sylvain? It is called humor, maybe not funny
for all of us but in any case it is not serious (although you can never be too
sure with both Sylvains, must me something in their names or maybe just because
they are French).
However did you get positive feedback only?
After reading your comments, and yes we do live in a democracy and you are free
to say what you want, I would never buy from you, maybe your feedbacks are positive
only due to…(no, I am not writing it).

we are USA only, you can't buy from us anyways...

Lucky me.
 Author: PlanetEarthToys View Messages Posted By PlanetEarthToys
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 18:50
 Subject: (Cancelled)
 Viewed: 73 times
 Topic: Problem Order
Cancel Message
Cancel
BrickLink
ID Card

PlanetEarthToys (146)

Location:  USA, Arkansas
Member Since Contact Type Status
Aug 24, 2021 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - Revoked
Store Closed Store: Planet Earth Toys
(Cancelled)
 Author: Dino View Messages Posted By Dino
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 19:12
 Subject: Re: Threats
 Viewed: 74 times
 Topic: Problem Order
 Report:
Cancel Message
Cancel
Reply to Message
Reply
BrickLink
ID Card

Dino (500)

Location:  Luxembourg
Member Since Contact Type Status
Oct 22, 2003 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - OK
Store: dino's world
In Problem Order, PlanetEarthToys writes:

  stop blaming me because i am quoting PayPal.

You are not quoting Paypal, you are quoting a user of Paypal. Moreover, this
case is from 2017! Moreover, this is a case of Ebay. At that time, Paypal still
belonged to Ebay and the conditions were still quite different.
 Author: PlanetEarthToys View Messages Posted By PlanetEarthToys
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 19:23
 Subject: (Cancelled)
 Viewed: 82 times
 Topic: Problem Order
Cancel Message
Cancel
BrickLink
ID Card

PlanetEarthToys (146)

Location:  USA, Arkansas
Member Since Contact Type Status
Aug 24, 2021 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - Revoked
Store Closed Store: Planet Earth Toys
(Cancelled)
 Author: PlanetEarthToys View Messages Posted By PlanetEarthToys
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 19:30
 Subject: (Cancelled)
 Viewed: 86 times
 Topic: Problem Order
Cancel Message
Cancel
BrickLink
ID Card

PlanetEarthToys (146)

Location:  USA, Arkansas
Member Since Contact Type Status
Aug 24, 2021 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - Revoked
Store Closed Store: Planet Earth Toys
(Cancelled)
 Author: peregrinator View Messages Posted By peregrinator
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 19:52
 Subject: Re: Threats
 Viewed: 66 times
 Topic: Problem Order
 Report:
Cancel Message
Cancel
Reply to Message
Reply
BrickLink
ID Card

peregrinator (1101)

Location:  USA, New Jersey
Member Since Contact Type Status
Jan 21, 2003 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - OK
Store: Faber Family Bricks
In Problem Order, PlanetEarthToys writes:

There's a difference between an item that is not as described (in which case
PayPal requires that the buyer send it back) and an item that the buyer never
ordered in the first place.
 Author: PlanetEarthToys View Messages Posted By PlanetEarthToys
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 20:00
 Subject: (Cancelled)
 Viewed: 84 times
 Topic: Problem Order
Cancel Message
Cancel
BrickLink
ID Card

PlanetEarthToys (146)

Location:  USA, Arkansas
Member Since Contact Type Status
Aug 24, 2021 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - Revoked
Store Closed Store: Planet Earth Toys
(Cancelled)
 Author: 1001bricks View Messages Posted By 1001bricks
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 20:22
 Subject: Re: Threats
 Viewed: 87 times
 Topic: Problem Order
 Report:
Cancel Message
Cancel
Reply to Message
Reply
BrickLink
ID Card

1001bricks (55746)

Location:  France, Provence-Alpes-Côte d'Azur
Member Since Contact Type Status
Sep 6, 2005 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - OK
Store: 1001bricks
In Problem Order, peregrinator writes:
  In Problem Order, PlanetEarthToys writes:

There's a difference between an item that is not as described (in which case
PayPal requires that the buyer send it back) and an item that the buyer never
ordered in the first place.


I'm afraid you're tilting at windmills.
The ennemy's real but your effort is vain

( https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Don_Quixote )
 
 Author: jennnifer View Messages Posted By jennnifer
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 22:19
 Subject: Re: Threats
 Viewed: 92 times
 Topic: Problem Order
 Report:
Cancel Message
Cancel
Reply to Message
Reply
BrickLink
ID Card

jennnifer (3697)

Location:  USA, Illinois
Member Since Contact Type Status
Sep 8, 2009 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - OK
Store: Old Grey Bricks
In Problem Order, PlanetEarthToys writes:
  In Problem Order, Dino writes:
  In Problem Order, PlanetEarthToys writes:

  stop blaming me because i am quoting PayPal.

You are not quoting Paypal, you are quoting a user of Paypal. Moreover, this
case is from 2017! Moreover, this is a case of Ebay. At that time, Paypal still
belonged to Ebay and the conditions were still quite different.

https://www.paypal.com/us/webapps/mpp/paypal-safety-and-security
 


 Author: PlanetEarthToys View Messages Posted By PlanetEarthToys
 Posted: Jul 3, 2023 02:29
 Subject: (Cancelled)
 Viewed: 116 times
 Topic: Problem Order
Cancel Message
Cancel
BrickLink
ID Card

PlanetEarthToys (146)

Location:  USA, Arkansas
Member Since Contact Type Status
Aug 24, 2021 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - Revoked
Store Closed Store: Planet Earth Toys
(Cancelled)
 Author: UTLF View Messages Posted By UTLF
 Posted: Jul 3, 2023 03:04
 Subject: (Cancelled)
 Viewed: 89 times
 Topic: Problem Order
Cancel Message
Cancel
BrickLink
ID Card

UTLF (1302)

Location:  Canada, British Columbia
Member Since Contact Type Status
Oct 27, 2018 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - OK
Store: UTLF
(Cancelled)
 Author: Yo_Yo_Flamingo View Messages Posted By Yo_Yo_Flamingo
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 19:30
 Subject: Re: Threats
 Viewed: 70 times
 Topic: Problem Order
 Report:
Cancel Message
Cancel
Reply to Message
Reply
BrickLink
ID Card

Yo_Yo_Flamingo (5687)

Location:  USA, New York
Member Since Contact Type Status
Jan 9, 2016 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - OK
Store: Set You Up
In Problem Order, SylvainLS writes:
  In Problem Order, PlanetEarthToys writes:
  […]
presenting someone with an ultimatum is extotion. regardless of where it happens
or who is issuing the ultimatum.

simple example of Extortion - "do this or else this other thing happens"

With that definition, sellers are “extorting” money from their buyers….

How did you know!?!
 
 Author: tonnic View Messages Posted By tonnic
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 18:11
 Subject: Re: Threats
 Viewed: 86 times
 Topic: Problem Order
 Report:
Cancel Message
Cancel
Reply to Message
Reply
BrickLink
ID Card

tonnic (4519)

Location:  Netherlands, Noord-Holland
Member Since Contact Type Status
Sep 30, 2004 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - OK
Store Closed Store: Tons_of_Bricks
In Problem Order, PlanetEarthToys writes:
  In Problem Order, jennnifer writes:
  In Problem Order, PlanetEarthToys writes:
  
welcome to Civilized Society

what you describe sounds like extortion. you started off the conversation with
the seller by issuing him an ultimatum, thus threatening him by saying "you
either do this or i keep what i received & you have to refund".
his response seems fitting for how you describe your initial interaction with
him. try a different route.

check his return policy , but if paypal was the payment processor, 99% sure you
will have to pay to return the merchadise for a refund. check their policy as
well

You are way off base here. Extortion? Threats? Really?

If a seller sends you the wrong item and wants it returned, they absolutely pay
for the return shipping.

~Jen

it's a simple return to sender in the same package using same tracking #
or buyer pays to return what was received.
ask paypal.

presenting someone with an ultimatum is extotion. regardless of where it happens
or who is issuing the ultimatum.

simple example of Extortion - "do this or else this other thing happens"

I think you are totally wrong and that is me saying it in a kind way.
I see others mentioned why the seller is wrong and why you are wrong but you
are too persistent in your believe.
Why should a buyer pay return shipping for something they did not order.
Sellers mistakes, sellers loss (in form of payment and/or minifig).
As a seller I would let the buyer keep the wrongly send minifig (specially looking
at the value of the minifig and also the shippingcosts of the return) and send
the right one. If I would want this minifig returned to my place I would pay
for it.
It is al about simple and good customers service.
I would even be glad the buyer mentioned it so a seller could take the wrongly
send minfig out of his or hers inventory so a potential buyer cannot order this
while the seller already shipped it to someone else.
 Author: TallyToyBricks View Messages Posted By TallyToyBricks
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 12:52
 Subject: Re: Threats
 Viewed: 84 times
 Topic: Problem Order
 Report:
Cancel Message
Cancel
Reply to Message
Reply
BrickLink
ID Card

TallyToyBricks (4128)

Location:  USA, Florida
Member Since Contact Type Status
Feb 16, 2011 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - OK
Store: Tally Toy
  
you do not get to keep what you received & get a full refund.

welcome to Civilized Society

what you describe sounds like extortion. you started off the conversation with
the seller by issuing him an ultimatum, thus threatening him by saying "you
either do this or i keep what i received & you have to refund".
his response seems fitting for how you describe your initial interaction with
him. try a different route.


You are spreading FALSE information.
The seller sent the wrong item - the seller should pay to have the item returned
and issue a full refund. There is no other fair outcome to the buyer.

Additionally, other countries have much stronger consumer protection laws - which
would cover this situation.

I don't understand your claim of "extortion" - the buyer paid for
an item and didn't receive it. The buyer is due a full refund.
 Author: PlanetEarthToys View Messages Posted By PlanetEarthToys
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 14:18
 Subject: (Cancelled)
 Viewed: 81 times
 Topic: Problem Order
Cancel Message
Cancel
BrickLink
ID Card

PlanetEarthToys (146)

Location:  USA, Arkansas
Member Since Contact Type Status
Aug 24, 2021 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - Revoked
Store Closed Store: Planet Earth Toys
(Cancelled)
 Author: TallyToyBricks View Messages Posted By TallyToyBricks
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 14:41
 Subject: Re: Threats
 Viewed: 74 times
 Topic: Problem Order
 Report:
Cancel Message
Cancel
Reply to Message
Reply
BrickLink
ID Card

TallyToyBricks (4128)

Location:  USA, Florida
Member Since Contact Type Status
Feb 16, 2011 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - OK
Store: Tally Toy
  keyword there.
seller is not required too, yeah he should to stay professional if he truely
made the mistake , but paypal won't require it. if i'm wrong , feel free
to prove me wrong, you'll get a free high-five.

Again, this transaction occurred in Europe they have much stronger consumer protection
laws.
 Author: PlanetEarthToys View Messages Posted By PlanetEarthToys
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 14:44
 Subject: (Cancelled)
 Viewed: 66 times
 Topic: Problem Order
Cancel Message
Cancel
BrickLink
ID Card

PlanetEarthToys (146)

Location:  USA, Arkansas
Member Since Contact Type Status
Aug 24, 2021 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - Revoked
Store Closed Store: Planet Earth Toys
(Cancelled)
 Author: TallyToyBricks View Messages Posted By TallyToyBricks
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 14:50
 Subject: Re: Threats
 Viewed: 67 times
 Topic: Problem Order
 Report:
Cancel Message
Cancel
Reply to Message
Reply
BrickLink
ID Card

TallyToyBricks (4128)

Location:  USA, Florida
Member Since Contact Type Status
Feb 16, 2011 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - OK
Store: Tally Toy
  
so then why is buyer here...?

both buyer & seller are Eruopean, they should both be fluent with buying & selling
shipping.

why isn't this just an Easy-Peezy 2 minute paypal claim away from already
being solved...?

In Europe, most payments are not made with PayPal - they use IBAN.
 Author: PlanetEarthToys View Messages Posted By PlanetEarthToys
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 14:55
 Subject: (Cancelled)
 Viewed: 65 times
 Topic: Problem Order
Cancel Message
Cancel
BrickLink
ID Card

PlanetEarthToys (146)

Location:  USA, Arkansas
Member Since Contact Type Status
Aug 24, 2021 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - Revoked
Store Closed Store: Planet Earth Toys
(Cancelled)
 Author: TallyToyBricks View Messages Posted By TallyToyBricks
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 14:57
 Subject: Re: Threats
 Viewed: 54 times
 Topic: Problem Order
 Report:
Cancel Message
Cancel
Reply to Message
Reply
BrickLink
ID Card

TallyToyBricks (4128)

Location:  USA, Florida
Member Since Contact Type Status
Feb 16, 2011 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - OK
Store: Tally Toy
  the OP's Jul 2, 2023 09:54 response to my comment where i suggested paypal
was the payment processor was not denied or contradicted, so go figuring that
is who it was.

either way, should be easy 2 minute claim & seller pays return shipping.
both buyer & seller would already know this.

Europe is different.
IBAN is a direct payment from your bank to their bank. There is no way to make
a claim. It is almost like paying someone with cash at a garage sale.
 Author: ghyde View Messages Posted By ghyde
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 15:03
 Subject: Re: Threats
 Viewed: 67 times
 Topic: Problem Order
 Report:
Cancel Message
Cancel
Reply to Message
Reply
BrickLink
ID Card

ghyde (204)

Location:  Australia, Queensland
Member Since Contact Type Status
May 10, 2003 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - OK
Store: Far North Bricks
In Problem Order, TallyToyBricks writes:
  
  the OP's Jul 2, 2023 09:54 response to my comment where i suggested paypal
was the payment processor was not denied or contradicted, so go figuring that
is who it was.

either way, should be easy 2 minute claim & seller pays return shipping.
both buyer & seller would already know this.

Europe is different.
IBAN is a direct payment from your bank to their bank. There is no way to make
a claim. It is almost like paying someone with cash at a garage sale.

Two people arguing over a method of payment when the buyer hasn't even stated
what it is.

Why do you argue over facts not in evidence?

Cheers ...

ghyde
 Author: 1001bricks View Messages Posted By 1001bricks
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 14:57
 Subject: Re: Threats
 Viewed: 60 times
 Topic: Problem Order
 Report:
Cancel Message
Cancel
Reply to Message
Reply
BrickLink
ID Card

1001bricks (55746)

Location:  France, Provence-Alpes-Côte d'Azur
Member Since Contact Type Status
Sep 6, 2005 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - OK
Store: 1001bricks
  
  why isn't this just an Easy-Peezy 2 minute paypal claim away from already
being solved...?

In Europe, most payments are not made with PayPal - they use IBAN.

That VERY depends the Country.

Exacts numbers for our shop, in France, for the whole 2022:
* PayPal 76%
* Stripe 10%
* IBAN, check, etc the remaining
 Author: TallyToyBricks View Messages Posted By TallyToyBricks
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 15:06
 Subject: Re: Threats
 Viewed: 66 times
 Topic: Problem Order
 Report:
Cancel Message
Cancel
Reply to Message
Reply
BrickLink
ID Card

TallyToyBricks (4128)

Location:  USA, Florida
Member Since Contact Type Status
Feb 16, 2011 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - OK
Store: Tally Toy
In Problem Order, 1001bricks writes:
  
  
  why isn't this just an Easy-Peezy 2 minute paypal claim away from already
being solved...?

In Europe, most payments are not made with PayPal - they use IBAN.

That VERY depends the Country.

Exacts numbers for our shop, in France, for the whole 2022:
* PayPal 76%
* Stripe 10%
* IBAN, check, etc the remaining

That was my American bias - thinking of Europe as a monolith and not a collection
of individual countries with different preferences.

Joe
 Author: 1001bricks View Messages Posted By 1001bricks
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 15:10
 Subject: Re: Threats
 Viewed: 77 times
 Topic: Problem Order
 Report:
Cancel Message
Cancel
Reply to Message
Reply
BrickLink
ID Card

1001bricks (55746)

Location:  France, Provence-Alpes-Côte d'Azur
Member Since Contact Type Status
Sep 6, 2005 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - OK
Store: 1001bricks
In Problem Order, TallyToyBricks writes:
  In Problem Order, 1001bricks writes:
  
  
  why isn't this just an Easy-Peezy 2 minute paypal claim away from already
being solved...?

In Europe, most payments are not made with PayPal - they use IBAN.

That VERY depends the Country.

Exacts numbers for our shop, in France, for the whole 2022:
* PayPal 76%
* Stripe 10%
* IBAN, check, etc the remaining

That was my American bias - thinking of Europe as a monolith and not a collection
of individual countries with different preferences.

Joe

Don't worry, we here hardly see the difference between USA, Canada and Mexico

Apart there's more snow in Mexico AFAIK.

IBAN/SEPA payments are FAR more common in Germany and Netherlands for instance.
 Author: Dino View Messages Posted By Dino
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 17:45
 Subject: Re: Threats
 Viewed: 66 times
 Topic: Problem Order
 Report:
Cancel Message
Cancel
Reply to Message
Reply
BrickLink
ID Card

Dino (500)

Location:  Luxembourg
Member Since Contact Type Status
Oct 22, 2003 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - OK
Store: dino's world
Please distinguish, there is a land mass called Europe, similar to Australia
and there is a federation of European states called the European Union (EU).
The laws you mention do not apply anywhere else in the EU.
Germany is in the EU, but Switzerland is not.


In Problem Order, TallyToyBricks writes:
  
  keyword there.
seller is not required too, yeah he should to stay professional if he truely
made the mistake , but paypal won't require it. if i'm wrong , feel free
to prove me wrong, you'll get a free high-five.

Again, this transaction occurred in Europe they have much stronger consumer protection
laws.
 Author: 1001bricks View Messages Posted By 1001bricks
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 13:24
 Subject: Re: Threats
 Viewed: 93 times
 Topic: Problem Order
 Report:
Cancel Message
Cancel
Reply to Message
Reply
BrickLink
ID Card

1001bricks (55746)

Location:  France, Provence-Alpes-Côte d'Azur
Member Since Contact Type Status
Sep 6, 2005 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - OK
Store: 1001bricks
  you do not get to keep what you received & get a full refund.

It's the contrary, you don't have to pay for what a seller sent if you
didn't order this.

Buyer can keep money AND goods.
Or, seller simply pays for the shipping.


  welcome to Civilized Society

The one of FlatEarthToys?
 Author: peregrinator View Messages Posted By peregrinator
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 14:57
 Subject: Re: Threats
 Viewed: 76 times
 Topic: Problem Order
 Report:
Cancel Message
Cancel
Reply to Message
Reply
BrickLink
ID Card

peregrinator (1101)

Location:  USA, New Jersey
Member Since Contact Type Status
Jan 21, 2003 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - OK
Store: Faber Family Bricks
In Problem Order, 1001bricks writes:
  
  you do not get to keep what you received & get a full refund.

It's the contrary, you don't have to pay for what a seller sent if you
didn't order this.

According to the United States Federal Trade Commission (FTC):

By law, companies can’t send unordered merchandise to you, then demand payment.
That means you never have to pay for things you get but didn’t order. You also
don’t need to return unordered merchandise. You’re legally entitled to keep it
as a free gift.


https://consumer.ftc.gov/articles/what-do-if-youre-billed-things-you-never-got-or-you-get-unordered-products#unordered

Even demanding that the item be returned or seeking payment for it is against
the law. Of course the recipient can send it back but there's no obligation
for him or her to do so.

Whether or not the Rule is involved, in any approval or other sale you must
obtain the customer’s prior express agreement to receive the merchandise. Otherwise
the merchandise may be treated as unordered merchandise. It is unlawful to:

...

2. Try to obtain payment for or the return of the unordered merchandise.


https://www.ftc.gov/business-guidance/resources/business-guide-ftcs-mail-internet-or-telephone-order-merchandise-rule
[scroll down to "Unordered Merchandise"]

I do agree that EU consumer protection laws are generally stronger than those
in the USA but not in this kind of case.
 Author: PlanetEarthToys View Messages Posted By PlanetEarthToys
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 14:59
 Subject: (Cancelled)
 Viewed: 78 times
 Topic: Problem Order
Cancel Message
Cancel
BrickLink
ID Card

PlanetEarthToys (146)

Location:  USA, Arkansas
Member Since Contact Type Status
Aug 24, 2021 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - Revoked
Store Closed Store: Planet Earth Toys
(Cancelled)
 Author: 1001bricks View Messages Posted By 1001bricks
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 15:03
 Subject: (Cancelled)
 Viewed: 58 times
 Topic: Problem Order
Cancel Message
Cancel
BrickLink
ID Card

1001bricks (55746)

Location:  France, Provence-Alpes-Côte d'Azur
Member Since Contact Type Status
Sep 6, 2005 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - OK
Store: 1001bricks
(Cancelled)
 Author: 1001bricks View Messages Posted By 1001bricks
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 15:06
 Subject: Re: Threats
 Viewed: 69 times
 Topic: Problem Order
 Report:
Cancel Message
Cancel
Reply to Message
Reply
BrickLink
ID Card

1001bricks (55746)

Location:  France, Provence-Alpes-Côte d'Azur
Member Since Contact Type Status
Sep 6, 2005 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - OK
Store: 1001bricks
  everything you just quoted does not apply

You're never wrong, aren't you?

What doesn't apply here?

That means you never have to pay for things you get but didn’t order. You
also don’t need to return unordered merchandise. You’re legally entitled to keep
it as a free gift.
 Author: ghyde View Messages Posted By ghyde
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 14:53
 Subject: Re: Threats
 Viewed: 92 times
 Topic: Problem Order
 Report:
Cancel Message
Cancel
Reply to Message
Reply
BrickLink
ID Card

ghyde (204)

Location:  Australia, Queensland
Member Since Contact Type Status
May 10, 2003 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - OK
Store: Far North Bricks
In Problem Order, Munotbrick writes:
  Hello

I ordered a couple minifigs from a german seller.
Once arrived, i told him that he send the wrong minifig. The minifig was already
in my collection, so i had no use for it.

I told him he can either send me the porto (what is high) and i send it back
and he sends me the correct minifig (what would be about 10 Euro + labor) or
he can send me just 10 euro and be done with the topic.

He refused. He wanted only to refund the difference between the cost of the minifig
he send me and the one i actually ordered. I explained him, that i would not
have ordered this minifig and i have no use for it, so either i send it back
on his cost and he sends me the right one or he has to refund.

It's just about 3 Euros actually. But i really don't like people that
don't full refund for their mistakes. Mistakes can happen!

As an answer, he told me again that he will just refund me the difference between
the delivered minifig and the minifig i ordered.

In the same message, he started to talk about that he checked out my website
and stuff, and starts threatening me with "abmahnungen". Thats some german
term were they report you for anything wrongdoing (like not having an impressum,
not beeing registered at the right place) and that this will cost me up to 2500
euro.

In the end, i'm not really threatend. I checked my legal obligations and
they are all fine (he probably just missed the links to impressum and data-security
in the footer).

Nevertheless - how to deal with such a seller on bricklink? He has many many
positive feedbacks - even though i start to suspect he makes sure this way that
he does not have any negative ones...

Send him a screenshot of the footer, and circle in red the links he missed. He
might back down if he understands threats like that aren't going to work.

It's also unclear what the difference in cost is between the correct minifig
and the incorrect one he sent you.

It sounds like he is trying to say keep the incorrect minifig and accept the
difference. This might imply that he doesn't actually have the correct minifig
and can't send it to you, and that he thinks that you want the correct minifig,
which he doesn't have, sent to you.

As others have pointed out, you can get a refund for the minifig through PayPal,
if you paid via that payment method. You didn't specify which payment method
you used, so if you didn't actually pay via PayPal, the people telling you
to get a refund through them should be ignored.

The principle is the same though, check if you can get a refund through the method
of payment, and see if you can get a full refund of the 10 euros or not.

Hopefully he will stop being threatening. Possibly there is some mistake in translation
or interpretation of the messages being sent back and forth?

I sincerely hope you can work with the seller to get a resolution without resorting
to threats. You're a buyer in this situation, be patient and stick to the
facts regarding the incorrect minifig.

Cheers ...

ghyde
 Author: cosmicray View Messages Posted By cosmicray
 Posted: Jul 2, 2023 16:22
 Subject: Re: Threats
 Viewed: 98 times
 Topic: Problem Order
 Report:
Cancel Message
Cancel
Reply to Message
Reply
BrickLink
ID Card

cosmicray (3573)

Location:  USA, Florida
Member Since Contact Type Status
Oct 1, 2000 Contact Member Seller
Buying Privileges - OKSelling Privileges - Revoked
Store Closed Store: Cosmic Toys
In Problem Order, Munotbrick writes:
  Hello

I ordered a couple minifigs from a german seller.
Once arrived, i told him that he send the wrong minifig. The minifig was already
in my collection, so i had no use for it.

I told him he can either send me the porto (what is high) and i send it back
and he sends me the correct minifig (what would be about 10 Euro + labor) or
he can send me just 10 euro and be done with the topic.

He refused. He wanted only to refund the difference between the cost of the minifig
he send me and the one i actually ordered. I explained him, that i would not
have ordered this minifig and i have no use for it, so either i send it back
on his cost and he sends me the right one or he has to refund.

It's just about 3 Euros actually. But i really don't like people that
don't full refund for their mistakes. Mistakes can happen!

As an answer, he told me again that he will just refund me the difference between
the delivered minifig and the minifig i ordered.

In the same message, he started to talk about that he checked out my website
and stuff, and starts threatening me with "abmahnungen". Thats some german
term were they report you for anything wrongdoing (like not having an impressum,
not beeing registered at the right place) and that this will cost me up to 2500
euro.

In the end, i'm not really threatend. I checked my legal obligations and
they are all fine (he probably just missed the links to impressum and data-security
in the footer).

Nevertheless - how to deal with such a seller on bricklink? He has many many
positive feedbacks - even though i start to suspect he makes sure this way that
he does not have any negative ones...

So, and putting on my Judge Judy judicial robe, there are a few details which
might help us all to sort out what is the best way forward.

What minifig was ordered ?

What minifig arrived ?

How much was the order total before shipping ?

How much was the shipping (plus VAT if recorded separately from the item cost)
?

From a purist perspective, those questions might not be important, but to me
they have some bearing on how to sort this out.

Nita Rae